I wish y'all would understand how much it hurts me when you talk about my family that way. Especially because you are my family. And that I should be on your side, but I'm not. I'm on nobody's side, because that's the way I am. And I can't help any of you, because all of you refuse to let go. The only thing I can do is sit with you and hear you tell me of the past you can't let go and cry with you. If it makes you feel any better, sure, I'll cry you a river. If it makes you a happier person, I'd be willing to do almost anything. But I can't, and that's what hurts the most.
I'm sorry y'all will never resolve this. Because you both are too stubborn to even consider the other person's side of the story. I love you both, and I'd be on top of the world if y'all loved each other the way I love you, but life doesn't work that way.
Life's too easy. That's why God gave us family. We're bound by blood to put up with them. Whether we want to or not.